Self-Control vs. Impulsivity
“Mastered by the Spirit, Not the Moment”
Part IX: "Fruit of the Spirit and Fruit of Fear" Series
“Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control.”
—Proverbs 25:28 (NIV)
“For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people. It teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age.”
—Titus 2:11–12 (NIV)
“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”
—2 Timothy 1:7 (ESV)
Self-control isn’t about gritting your teeth and trying harder.
It’s not willpower—it’s Spirit power.
Fear says, “If you don’t grab it now, you’ll miss out.”
But self-control says, “I already have all I need in Christ.”
“Like a city without walls…”
That’s how Scripture describes a life with no self-control—defenseless, unguarded, and vulnerable to whatever comes next.
Impulsivity makes you act before praying.
Self-control helps you pause and listen.
“The grace of God… teaches us to say ‘No’.”
Did you catch that?
Grace doesn’t just forgive you—it trains you.
You’re not out of control—you’re under new management.
And God didn’t give you a spirit of fear.
He gave you power, love, and—yes—self-control.
So today, slow down.
Pause before reacting.
Ask the Holy Spirit to govern your next move.
Because being led by the Spirit always leads to life and peace (Romans 8:6).
Prayer
Father, thank You for the gift of Your Spirit. When I feel the urge to react or indulge, remind me that I’ve been given grace to say no—and strength to walk in wisdom. Grow self-control in me, not as a burden, but as freedom. In Jesus’ name, Amen.