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When Honor Is Given, Not Sought

How Saul and David Responded When God Chose Them

When Honor Is Given, Not Sought

How Saul and David Responded When God Chose Them

Neither Saul nor David asked to be king.
Neither campaigned for power.
Neither positioned himself for promotion.

And yet—both were chosen.

The difference wasn’t the calling.

It was the posture.

Honor Reveals What We Trust

Saul was taller than anyone else. Strong. Impressive.
But when the honor of kingship came, Scripture says he hid among the baggage.

Not because he was humble—but because he was afraid.

Saul received the crown as something to protect for himself.
And fear always turns gifts into burdens.

David, on the other hand, wasn’t even invited to the anointing.
He was overlooked. Unconsidered. Forgotten in the field.

Yet when honor finally came—years later—David received it as something to steward for others.

One grasped.

One entrusted.

Fear Clutches. Love Relies.

Saul’s leadership was fueled by insecurity.
He measured himself against others.
He defended his image.
He blamed instead of repenting.
He obeyed partially—and justified it fully.

David sinned deeply—but returned quickly.
He didn’t excuse himself.
He didn’t defend his reputation.
He trusted God’s mercy more than his own righteousness.

Saul feared losing the kingdom.

David trusted God with it.

God’s Faithfulness Was the Constant

Here’s the quiet truth we often miss:

God didn’t abandon Saul.
Saul abandoned trust.

God didn’t favor David because he was flawless.
God stayed close because David stayed dependent.

Calling does not sustain us.

Dependence does.

When God Honors You

Both men were given what they didn’t ask for.

One tried to manage it.

The other learned to abide.

And that made all the difference.

Reflection

When honor or responsibility comes my way, do I feel the need to protect myself—or trust God?

Where might fear be shaping my obedience?

What would it look like to receive my calling as stewardship rather than pressure?

Prayer

Abba Father, teach me to receive what You give without fear. Keep my heart soft, my posture dependent, and my trust rooted in Your faithfulness. I don’t want to manage my calling—I want to walk with You in it. Amen.

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